You’re not just another, confused by emotional pain. I detest getting emotionally rattled. When someone’s choices toward me twist my heart, I don’t want that person to distort and define its shape and size. She treated me poorly. Why should I allow my heart and time to be arrested by her behavior? I want to …
Category: Not Just Another
An Unlikely Mrs. Part 2: My Mirthless Companion
Pain. Although I had a few extremely sweet boyfriends in high school, by the time I entered college, mysterious health issues changed my personality and stole my energy. About twenty years later, the diagnosis came to light: stage IV endometriosis. I learned endometriosis stuck my ovaries to the back of my uterus and had grown …
An Unlikely Mrs. Part 1: Little Me, Big Prayers
At a young age, I was taught Jesus cares about all the details of your life. While growing up, Psalm 139 misted and, eventually, saturated my mind. For instance: The whole chapter is worth the few minutes to mentally savor. Because my childhood brimmed with love from a personal God, to me, praying for my …
My New Series: An Unlikely Mrs.
I’ll soon be releasing the true story (my own!) of An Unlikely Mrs. in a series of posts. You’re not just another single, who has lost hope. Here’s a preview: This true story is for anyone who thinks it’s too late to find life-changing love. Maybe, you haven’t had time for it, with your demanding …
IVF: How to Use It for Good
You’re not just another, who’s struggling with infertility. Because of: 1) the controversy spurred by President Trump’s executive order, 2) my unanticipated fertility detours, and 3) my friends, who have traumatic infertility experiences, IVF is top of mind. I’ve listened to influential thinkers regarding IVF, and this article differs. Well-known commentators seem to choose between …
Bad News for Luigi Mangione Fans
Although Mangione fans apparently regard murder as palatable, potent medicine for a diseased system, I have bad news for them. Mangione’s alleged choice was much more infected than the ills of corporate healthcare. Murder creates human suffering, unlike corporate healthcare. An irony not to be ignored, the alleged murderer’s actions replicated a sick system, by …
A Controversial Take on the Movie, “Your Monster”
Spoiler alert – if you don’t want to know what really happens in Your Monster, don’t read. I was excited for a charming, modern twist to a redeeming, classic tale. But, the allure of mythical empowerment has Your Monster tight in its talons. First, crafting art from emotional pain echoes the divine. I completely agree …
Surprise After Marriage
Life can’t resist dropping surprises at our door. The only certainty in a broken world may be bad surprises. Cheerful, right? I’m writing this for two reasons: first, to encourage those battling singledom not to give up on choosing the right person for you. You’re not just another, and you’re not just another single. Why …
A Lifetime Spent on a Sentence
For me, a sentence requires a lifetime of practice. Overwhelming, right? This is how I feel when I read certain sentences in the Bible. In the Bible-reading marathon of a believer, I hope I’m not the only one who lingers on life-changing words, stopped in my tracks at the end of the pack. Aren’t …
How to Navigate Endometriosis in an Unhealthy Medical System – Part 3: Post-Surgery Disappointment & Symptom Management
This tripartite series is dedicated to those exhausted by mulish medical issues. Part 1 demystified the diagnosis dilemma; Part 2 provided time-saving tips for health insurer evasion and brought order to medical bill madness. In Part 3, we’ll explore post-surgery disappointment and symptom management. At the first postoperative visit after my endometriosis surgery, the surgeon …
